People-pleasing is a curse

Don't allow other people's opinions and judgments to control the direction of your life.

不要讓別人的意見和判斷來左右你的人生方向。

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The need to fit in and feel wanted can cause you to travel down paths you don't want to travel.

渴望融入群體，渴望被需要，會(huì)把你引入你并不想要的人生旅程。

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People-pleasing is a curse that should be avoided at all costs.

取悅他人是一個(gè)詛咒，我們無論如何都要避免。

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Before you do anything ask yourself, am i doing this because I want to do it? Or because of my fear of judgement from others if I don't.

在你做任何事情前，問問自己，我這樣做是因?yàn)槲蚁胍プ鰡?？還是因?yàn)閼峙氯绻也蝗プ?，別人會(huì)對(duì)我說三道四呢？

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You were born unique for a reason,? you were born to stand out to be appreciated and loved for who you are, don't dim your light so you fit into the dull background of other people's lives.

你生來就是獨(dú)一無二的，你生來就要脫穎而出，從而讓別人去欣賞和喜歡真實(shí)的你。 不要羞于展現(xiàn)自己，如果這樣，你就只能活在別人生活的陰影里。

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Shine bright as you are. Those who really care for you will see that light and shine with you.

展露你的鋒芒吧！那些真正關(guān)心你的人會(huì)看到你的閃光點(diǎn)。

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【重點(diǎn)詞匯&表達(dá)】

1.The need to?fit in?and?feel wanted

（fit in：相處融洽； feel wanted：感覺被需求）

2.People-pleasing?is a?curse

（people-pleasing：取悅他人； curse：[k??s] n.詛咒）

3.be avoided?at all costs

（at all costs：不惜任何代價(jià)）

4.you were born to?stand out

（stand out：突出，顯眼）

5.don't?dim your light?so you?fit into?the?dull?background of other people's lives.

（dim your light：暗淡你的光芒；fit into：融入；dull：[d?l] a.呆滯的，陰暗的）

不懂的地方可以參照視頻中的翻譯哦~~