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Absolutely.

Preparing means that you are thinking what things you're going to say and you will consider how listeners will react.

It's normal for people to say something without considering its influence

In this sense, listeners may feel uncomfortable on? hearing words you have said.

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Especially ,if you give advice to adults, it's better for you to think that way how you will express.

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2

It's acceptable.

But I don't think this is the only solution.

Nowadays, there are different kinds of online application forms where you can ask questions and many strangers will comment.

But the problem is that they may not know your real situation.

And therefore their feedback will not be compatible with you.

on the other, some comments are rather hideous.

I mean you may suffer online bullying

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So the best solution is to ask help from the people with whom you are familiar cause they will understand you better.

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3

Well, some jobs such as therapists, consultants are those who give advice.

One of the most important qualities is to be patient.

Patience means that people can work in a confident way to deal with different situations from different customers.

It's normal that different clients will have different situations. And some clients find it hard to follow instructors.

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Besides, I suppose, the ability to understand others is also very important and ?call this ability as sympathy and empathy

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Well, what springs to my head is that you will get lost in different answers.

Obviously, different people will give their answers according to their life experiences.

And all the answers will be various

Then it will be difficult for you to make the final decision, meaning it is hard for you to decide whose advice you will take

So ,still again, it's better for you to ask the friends whom you trust instead of ask an awful lot of people.

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