1.outgrow 0:59

to no longer do or?enjoy?something that you used to do, because you have grown older and changed

what I want to explore today is that experience of outgrowing your friends, of outgrowing relationships.

2.fizzle 3:51

Fizzle out

To gradually?stop?happening, especially because people become less?interested

Sometimes friendship need to fizzle an end for you to find new versions of yourself.

3.solitude 4:42

when you are?alone, especially when this is what you?enjoy?

Find the value of solitude.

4.make a trade off 交易 missing out on something when you choose one alternative over another

5.traumatic?18:05

a traumatic experience is so shocking?and?upsetting?that it?affects?you for a long time

it’s kind of like a slow burnout of the relationship rather than a relationship breakup which is often you know violate and a traumatic departure of a friend from our lives due to big falling out.

6.stale 22:12

1.?bread?or?cake?that is stale is no longer?fresh?or good to?eat

French bread?goes stale?(=becomes stale)?very quickly.

2. not?interesting?or?exciting?anymore

Go on stale

7.facilitate 24:58

to make it easier for a process or activity to happen

these repeated experiences facilitate nerve growth and connections between our synapses(the place where?nerve?cells?meet, especially in the?brain).

8.lash out 25:50

1. to suddenly?speak?angrily to someone or?criticize?someone angrily

2. to?try?to?hit?someone with a?series?of?violent?uncontrolled?movements