When people tell you that they are busy, they just want to spare some time for people who are more important to them.

當(dāng)別人和你說(shuō)忙，

是他/她要留時(shí)間給更重要的人。

Don’t naively think that she/he is really busy and just wait for her/him foolishly there.

不要天真的以為對(duì)方真的忙，

就傻傻的等。

Don’t wait until the person says something like ‘hehe’ and ‘oh’, Or just thoroughly ignore you, will you become angry from shame and show inappropriate etiquettes.

不要等到對(duì)方說(shuō)呵呵和哦，

或者根本不搭理你，

才惱羞成怒展現(xiàn)自己的素質(zhì)。

Pretending to be busy is a very polite way to decline other people.

忙是很有禮貌的一種回絕方式。

Maybe you should make yourself become more important to her/him, and make her/him hard to refuse you.?

Isn’t this idea better?

或許，

你讓自己位置變的很重要，

讓對(duì)方不敢拒絕你，

豈不是更好？